GIFT OR A CURSE??
...when we talk about love, the first thing we could think of is happiness and such spectacular emotion. It's so special that it could make you see what's not made to be seen by the eyes, and feel what others could not feel. Is it true that love is blind? For me love becomes blind when all that you can see are the positive sides of emotion ignoring the ones that in reality should be quite given a emphasis. I agree that to love is to get hurt. They say that all things even great or small has it's corresponding nature. If you love, you should be aware of the parameters and sacrifices that should be done for a relationship to last. Love is like an experiment that once you've tried and test, it could transform in other emotion. It's true that love can turn to hatred for a person who becomes possesive and greedy that the person wanted his/her partner only to be theirs. Also, love can be succesful for those who see it normally in relation with their partners. Sometimes after we get hurt, we are afraid to love again. It's so hard to cure the pain specially within your heart that there comes the time a person could'nt stand it anymore and commit suicide....how cruel love is...Is it indeed nescessary?
For some people, it's hard to forgive after being hurt ...why?.. because the pain that "love" ones made is difficult to perish or terminate.. It is so prominent to those partners who are freshly broke-up. It's like a broken glass thatw as put again together but still the marks of it's crack gives and testifies that the glass was once benn broken.. Our heart is like that glass.. A sacred and special heart that one's been hurt, is hard to vanish not only the left marks but also that fatal pain...
..Suffering is for those people who was not blessed to know the concept of love.. how poor those fool people that knows the word love but could not define it..
...It's beter to love a 50% than giving the best.. why?..so that when the time comes that you had realized that you're not really meant for each other ,it's not so hard to feel such pain for you had given only a 50% love.. it should be given back a 50% pain... While loving a 100% or more,it can almost kill you.. Why you should say" At least i had given my best and loved at the fullest!" What can it help for you? who could understand your principles of "loving"? no one! Only yourself testifies and you you have nothing to do but to taste that pain and cry until your eyes have nothing to cry....
..One thing i could keep on my mind is that love and life is not unfair, It's just that were not much aware on how to handle such emotions and events that in real life exist...
...So should i say love is a gift or a curse?? Now you're the one who'll decide.....
. . .ThE wEiRd fEeLinG oF LovE. . . it's hard to find the true and right person for you... love is like a spell and its really frightful to accept the truth that people will get hurt if they try to love....
so should i say that its better not to fall in love or give yourself a chance to love and feel its weirdness and accept all the consequences that might come?...
loving a person or having someone you could say a "partner" is cool but did'nt we ever think of that loving may lead us in being selfish or greedy?..
if we love someone we want him or her only to be ours...jealousy now comes in this case... that's why its really hard to have a relationship specially if you both don't know what you really feel for each other...
sometimes friendships are being destroyed just to sacrifice love..
sometimes your afraid to trust anyone, they might hurt you the way your not expecting..
sometimes your mind is close because your heart is the one who's thinking...
and sometimes forgiveness has no space in your heart after you have been hurt... am i right?
sometimes you just want to close your eyes thinking that there's no really problems...
sometimes you'll just let them go where they are happy..
sometimes traitors are just around not knowing they're the ones that are special in your heart...
the fact that love is awesome but love is cruel is true..
awesome for those people who are experiencing happiness in their present situation not knowing there's someone who's suffering because of them..
cruel for those who are experiencing hate coz they cant find the ones for them..
but for me as for now i should say love is just there.. don't waste time on those stupid people thinking that they really love you but still they're not contented and flirting with someone else...
just don't think of it and your right one will just come...
love and learn to understand that there are consequences after experiencing true love......
